I put a hole in the freaking wall. Twenty-six years with my high school sweetheart. Gone. Gone in one night. Gone in one moment. Gone with one punch. My kids were in their room. I punched that hole in the wall and I called their mother names that no man should ever say. In that […]
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The Sudden Shift: Coping When Divorce Gusts Blow You Off Course
đźš› The Gust: When the Divorce Storm Hits and Flips You Over Before I get ahead of myself, let me tell you why this matters: life can feel steady — manageable — until one moment flips everything. That’s exactly how divorce tends to hit. I’ll never forget that night on Interstate 80 in Wyoming. I […]
The Divorce Crash Scene: Triage & Survival in the First 24 Hours
AI-generated image of a crash scene with flashing ambulance lights, symbolizing the shock and urgency divorced dads face in the first 24 hours after the divorce bomb drops.
When Expectations After Divorce Wreck: From Rollover to Rebuild
Brother, let’s be real—most of us rolled into marriage thinking it was forever. ’Til death do us part. We had expectations about love, loyalty, and life that felt solid as a Peterbilt’s frame. But when divorce hits, those expectations can wreck fast—leaving debris all over the highway of your life. You’re left staring in the […]
From Broken to Building: My Story and the Divorced Dads Support Group Mission
Intro: I wasn’t the one who created this group. That credit goes to Jared Sequin—a Michigan man who laid the foundation and brought thousands of dads together during their darkest chapters. But when Jared decided to step back and hand over the keys, I knew in my gut that this convoy still had a lot […]